Singleness is a blessing

Josh, my former classmate, and I had a great conversation. It’s about LOVE. He asked me if I have someone special this coming Valentine’s day. I said, “Yes, my mom and my sister. But if your talking about ‘someone special’… none! For me, it’s the FIRST and LAST.” Then he asked me to continue…

One thing I’m thankful about is that, at the early stage, I already made a vow between God and I that I will wait for that ‘special someone’. She will be the first and the last. Now, some of you would say, “Ay ang corny!”, “Walang thrill.”, “Magsawa ka na hanggat maaga pa kasi hindi mo na ‘yan magagawa pag tumanda ka na!” And even someone asked me, “Paul pa’no kayo magtatagal eh hindi mo nga siya ganun kakilala? Siguradong hindi kayo magtatagal!” Well, it is so simple! God always gives us the best. Let say I am a father and I have a son. My son wants to receive a gift. Of course, as a father I want him to receive the best gift. Can you see now the logic? It is the same as having that ‘special someone’ to be the first and last girl in your life. If you’re thinking, “Mag-aaway kaya kayo?” Problem is design to strengthen the relationship of the couples or lovers, not to destroy both of you.

Personally, I already prayed for my future wife but that doesn’t mean that I don’t have ‘crushes’. My ideal girl must have these qualities: sings well, makes me laugh, and must be Born Again Christian. But what makes me turn-on is that if the girl is ‘BANLAG’. She’s somewhere out there! Waiting for me… Har! har! har!

Ms. Regine Velasquez

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Then Josh asked me, “So who is that ‘special someone’? And how will you know that she is the ONE?”

Pray. Just asked God to reveal the right partner for you. Now if you’re already at the pinnacle of finding that ‘special someone’, maybe God is calling you to be a full time servant. Now don’t give up. Keep in mind that ‘Singleness is a blessing!’ You are blessed!!

Select, Magallanes